Does it not just make you want to explode when he starts acting like your not there? He probably isn't paying as much attention to you as you deserve or thought you deserve, and you may be wondering why.
Well there are reasons why a man would take his girlfriend or wife for granted and here are nine of them.
You talk to much A guy hate it when you bother him with every details of the latest everything. Well sometimes he might just pretend to be listening to you but if you keep at it all he will be hearing is "Blah blah blah.... did you even hear a word I said?''
You lack ambition He want to hear you talk about your dreams. Guys usually have respect for a woman who knows exactly what she wants in life. if you prove to him that you're clueless about what you want to achieve, he will take you very likely.
You nag about everything Well he probably needs a companion not his mom. Don't always complain when he does his guy thing. Don't be like "Why did you do this or didn't do that?" You need to understand that he is a guy and isn't as meticulous to every detail as you are. Sometimes all you need to do is just let him be when he seems to not want to change, but if you keep nagging he will take you for granted.
Your cooking sucks There is a saying in Africa that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Well some guys may not care about that, but if your man does he will probably take you for granted if you can't cook.
You have low self esteem There is a big gap between timidity and humility. You must be proud of who you are. No one can have confidence in you when you don't even have confidence in yourself. It doesn't matter what family you are from or he is from. If he doesn't appreciate you for who you are he don't deserve you. But if you take yourself for granted, he will too.
He is probably seeing someone else If your man starts seeing someone else behind your back, his attitude towards you is likely going to change. In this case he is the problem not you and there may be little you can do about it, except hope he changes.
You are not presentable He may probably never tell you this, but if he is only comfortable with you indoor it should suggest something to you. If you really mean what he claims then he shouldn't have a problem letting the whole world know about you.
You are selfish Don't only be concern about your own personal needs. If all you talk about is yourself and everything in-between then he will take you for granted. You have to show him that things about him are also of a priority to you.
You don't fit into his future plan You must learn to define your relationship from the start. Make sure there could be a future between you two or else you will end up wasting your time. If he doesn't talk about the future with you, you probably don't fit in there.
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